The 3 Types of Relationship Fights You Keep Having and What To Do About Them – Esther Perel
A blog that talks about the real issues that lie behind your fights.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver
This book guides couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.
Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships: The Blueprints for Success – The Gottman Institute
A look at three “conflict blueprints” to help you and your partner constructively manage conflict around unsolvable problems.
Couples Therapy and the Art of Conflict Resolution – Idit Sharoni
This article talks about how couples therapy supports conflict resolution.
Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection by Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman PhD
This book helps couples escape the win-or-lose mentality in favour of a collaborative approach: calming down, staying connected, and really understanding, so that our fights can bring us closer.
Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin
This book presents ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
The High-Conflict Couple: A Dialectical Behavior Therapy Guide to Finding Peace, Intimacy, and Validation by Alan E. Fruzzetti
This book talks about skills you can use to tame out-of-control emotions that flare up in your relationship.
After the Fight: Using Your Disagreements to Build a Stronger Relationship by Daniel B. Wile
A book that analyses why couples fight and how to use these moments to build healthier relationships.
Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terrence Real
A book that helps you transform your relationships into ones that are based on compassion, collaboration, and closeness.
Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relationships by Jayson Gaddis
A book that talks about how to stop running away from uncomfortable conversations and instead learn how to work through them.
